What you do if you slick done found ur soulmate but she aint feelin you? I aint tryna end up like Chris Rock on that one movie.
You get over it and move on. How do you have a one sided soulmate situation?? If you continue to pursue that, you’re setting yourself up for complete failure. Believe her when she tells/shows you she’s not feeling you.
Ok yes when you put it like that, it puts it in a different perspective for me, so I appreciate that. I guess what I was trying to say was, yes I understand he would be interested in butt play, but asking me for it is out of the equation. That should be seeked elsewhere and I wouldnt be sexually involved with him during the time. I'm open to be with anyone as long as the feeling is in fact mutual and they are checked for STIs and such regualrly
Understood. That is definitely something everyone of any sexualy orientation should do. Just keep in mind when you’re open to dating gay/bi men, you are increasing the risk of contracting an STI because you have opened yourself to their lifestyle as well. I’m glad we could unserstand one another)
I can't lie I experimented once just to see what a tranny would be like. It definitely wasn't for me after I got finished doing it. I just felt like I killed a part of myself by doing something that I thought I'd never allow myself to do. I swear after doing it I just hit a stage of self hate and depression for a while.
Don’t hate yourself for that. What if you liked it? You’d probably still be dabbling in it. If you were interested in that type of situation, you just were! So you gave it a shot and you didn’t like it. And that’s ok. You followed an urge. It doesn’t make you more or less of a person. Keep your head up.
none of it's cool but you know what? pretty soon it's going to be hard finding a fully straight man. everyone seems to be exploring their sexuality these days. it's like it's not even normal to be straight
The DL movement is mighty strong. I don’t like it at all. But I’ll never give into that madness. Hopefully the men I pursue are what they say they are.
I've never heard of anyone knowingly date a dude that was bi before, that last chick lives an interesting lifestyle.
She indeed does have an interesting lifestyle; but it’s not uncommon to know beforehand that a man is bi. I know many women that date openly bisexual men. Some women just don’t have a problem with it. They like what they like.
lol you wildin. if it aint for you it aint for you, but why would what a bi man does with another man, at another time, bother you while you were getting down with him?
Hey if you like it, I love it. I’m being presented with the scenerios and questions and i am answering them. In my own opinion. If that’s what yawl like, shit have it. Gay/bi men just ain’t for moi.